Spitting and Stimming or Anger and Deffiance???!!!!!!
So Lately Little Man has taken to making raspberry spitting noises when we say things he doesn’t like. I have spoken with him many times about this behavior but tonight it really got on my nerves and it is too much of a coincidence for it to be stimming he does it when he is angry and it is not ok. So tonight I told him every time he spits at me I will take a toy…..he stopped spitting. Then he was brushing his teeth in the dinning room and I told him go to the bathroom….he spit…..So I went for the gold and took his favorite toy “Optimus Primal” and I am holding hostage till he learns. He became so angry he spit 5 more times and I took 5 more toys…..Silence……….I hope this lesson will be a quick one…….